The Art of Reading People - Part -1
Here We will Discuss the Importance of Reading People from 2 Perspectives - The Point of View and That of the Victim.
READING PEOPLE FROM DARK PSYCOLOGY USER`S POINT OF VIEW
As Mentioned Previously, one of the First and most Important Steps a Practitioner of Dark Psychology takes is is the Period of Observation where he/she is getting Ready to pick out his Victim or Plan his Approach for a Predetermined Victim. The Exact situation will care based on the Practitioner`s Purposes.
For Example, someone who is looking to establish a Relationship with a new Victim might Spend a Great Deal of time watching and Learning all he can about a Pool of Protentional Victims, while someone who intends to get on someone`s Good side at his place of Employment will have to work with the Potential Victim, alone with his/her Personality, Demeanor, and Vulnerability to Manipulate.
One thing to keep in mind is that not all the ëasy"Targets.
Research has shown that a Large number of Narcissist actually enjoy the Challenge of Manipulating those "Hard -Gets" because having accomplished such a task only raises their own Sense of Superiority.
It is difficult to Predict just how a Dark Psychology user Chooses the Victim to enact he`s/her Strategies, but the Observation and Preparation Period when the Practitioner will collect as much Information on the target as Possible before making a Move.
Of course, this is not always the case, Especially in planned Interactions that will take place on a One-Time - Only Basis. But for the Long Term Victim, The Practitioner must prepare carefully and Devise a plan of attack that is Likely to Succeed if Executed Well.
What Dark Psychology cannot Predict is how exactly the Recipient is going to Respond. In Order to keep moving forward with an initial Approach, The Dark Psychology user must be able to pick up on Signals that Broadcast how the Victim is Feeling and which give clues as to what he/she is thinking.
The Practiced Manipulator will know what to look, for instance of Body Language and other Verbal and Physical clues to Gauge how will he is doing and whether or not he needs to back off and try again later or find a new victim altogether.
The Approach itself is meticulously thought through, and the demeanor and personality of the victim are often take into account during the time when the practitioner is planning it.
It is essential that the Practitioner approaches in a way that is non threatening and friendly so as not to scare off the Target.
Once the interaction Begins, The Dark Psychology User`s Goal is to Present himself in a way that Seems Effortless and Natural, while Behind the scenes, he has Put great amount of thought and Practice into his Persona.
His Goal throughout this whole initial Interaction is to Gain Rapport and Form some scheme.
He Looks for Positive Micro expressions and other Body Language cues, which will tell him whether or not the victim is comfortable or anxious.
Micro expressions are very brief, telling expressions of the face which are far more subtle than the expressions we usually associate with people being Happy, Sad, or Angry.
This can Last only a fraction of a Second, Yet if someone is watching closely, he Pickup on the Brief Signal, Which tells him a Little Bit more about how the Subject is Feeling.
Expressions of Worry or discomfort will tell Practitioner that he needs to back off or use a Different tactic, though it might be too Late, and he might need to simply find another Target and Start Over. These signals are numerous and vary widely based on Personality and Context, so let`s look at an Example to Illustrate how a Dark Psychology user might read a Target in order to get clues as to How he should Proceed.
Annie is sitting alone in a park, reading a book. The Manipulator - Let1s call him David - is Nearby, watching and waiting to see if she has other obligations, such as meeting someone., looking after a child, etc..
He want long enough to gather that she is there by herself, simply enjoying the nice day and relaxing with a book. He decides this might be his Perfect Target.
He analyzes her clothes-very conservative, no makeup, with glasses. She didn`t come out here with a lot of concern about dressing up or appearing effortly attractive, though she is cute and doesn1t need to try Hard.
He decides she isn`t completely wrapped up in herself and may not be very friendly, casual encounter that does threaten to alter her day and her plan for it
However, she is also very attentive to her book, and she may be put off by someone interrupting her. Perhaps he should give the approach and, hopeful, the conversation follows a purpose and subject, say, the book she is reading.
Perhaps he will tell her he is a Teacher and appreciates a young Person taking the Time to Read and Enjoy a Good Book,
The Dark Psychology Practitioner goes over his Plan in his head and, when he feels prepared, he will make the approach
Now, it`s all about Reading the Reactions and Behavior's of the Subject. If Annie responds with a smile and friendly effect, then this gives him a signal that his approach is appropriate and that she is open to a Friendly Conversation.
If she is Short, not bothering to Raise her Eyes from the Book, it might be a signal that she does not want to talk to anyone right now. The Practitioner might move forward with his Plan until he is rebuffed a second time, then back-off.
In the situation where Annie seems amenable to a conversation, he sits down and begins speaking about his vocation, Interest in books etc..
As he does this, he is careful to engage her and make eye contact, but not so much Expressions.
Furrowed brows might Signal Discomfort, while a smile that affects the skin around the Eyes is Genuine and signals that she is Enjoying oriented her Body is toward the Speaker, the more Engaged she is.
If she remain Upright and straight to the front or, worse, starts to turn away, it means she is anxious and uneasy about the interaction,
The Practitioner will continue to act alongside these cues until he feels it is the Right time to disengage, but he will do his Best to " Run into Her " or, if it feels Right, Ask specifically to meet up with her again Perhaps for a Friendly cup of Coffee.
So, Now in Next Chapter, We will further disscuss Topics Regarding " Importance of Reading People"
The Next Topic we will be Discussing is :
READING PEOPLE FROM A POTENTIAL VICTIM`S POINT VIEW
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